Comments on: My Boundaries For My Sex Addict Husband http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/ Help for Partners of Sex and Porn Addicts Fri, 18 May 2012 15:55:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Karen http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-10403 Karen Wed, 16 May 2012 05:54:16 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-10403 I say you are young. give it another year and see if he continues his behavior. Don't marry him though. Just keep a close eye on it. Dr Carns has a good book on sex addicts .Please read it ok. Good luck to you. I say you are young. give it another year and see if he continues his behavior. Don’t marry him though. Just keep a close eye on it. Dr Carns has a good book on sex addicts .Please read it ok. Good luck to you.

]]> By: Karen http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-10402 Karen Wed, 16 May 2012 05:23:26 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-10402 Just wanted to share a few things with those who are suffering with a sex addict. 1. You can get a disease and die from your partners activities. 2. you are a co sex addict. When you do all of the things like follow him, search his computer, and follow him, you are only playing Into his game. Either he wants to stop or not. it is that simples. 3. If you choose to stay with an active sec addict you have a tough road ahead of you. 4. Even if your partner is actively going through the 12 step program or in treatment there are no guarabntees. you might wnder how I know all this.... Well the Eason is that I am married to a sex addict for 8 years. I knew before we married...but he went to sex addicts anon group. Three weeks after we were married I came home to 20 min recording on my voice mail of him and a man in a Public place having sex. I guess his phone auto dialed. It might have been an accident but I believe it was god showing me the truth. I needed to know. I cried for weeks after that... Maybe years....but I had two choices. Stay with my. Best friend or divorce my husband. I stayed. Two things changed. I stopped checking on him which made me crazy... And I stopped all intimate connection with him. We simply don't talk about it. Sometimes I still check things like I did tonight and found he was placing ads again.......I yelled at him and told him how discusting his behavior is to me and how ashamed he should be. )He said he was and then we both went into our own bedrooms. I will leave him one of these days. Right now I know I would not trust another man and he provides for me now. So I am comfortable for now. I am not worried anymore because I iknow what he is and what he does. You cannot stop a sex addict because there are thousands of other sex addicts out there looking for a playmate. in my experience they don't have long term affairs, rather one time flings. my husband meets people I. The following ways... 1. On craigs list 2. While on business trips 3. At clubs during the day 4. Hookers 5 chat rooms 6. Personal websites like I saw a post one day on crags list. it said " wife at work today till 5pm. Can have hot sex at my house till 4 today.". I cried when I saw that because some unsuspecting woman was off working and her sex addict husband stays home meeting people in there bed. This is how it goes girls. I an sorry if I wrote something in this post that is not appropriate, but today I just needed to tell you how helpless I feel in a very sad situation with my sex addict husband. If I had to do it all over again, as soon As I finished playing that recording I should have packed my things and left that day. Just wanted to share a few things with those who are suffering with a sex addict.
1. You can get a disease and die from your partners activities.
2. you are a co sex addict. When you do all of the things like follow him, search his computer, and follow him, you are only playing Into his game. Either he wants to stop or not. it is that simples.
3. If you choose to stay with an active sec addict you have a tough road ahead of you.
4. Even if your partner is actively going through the 12 step program or in treatment there are no guarabntees.

you might wnder how I know all this…. Well the Eason is that I am married to a sex addict for 8 years. I knew before we married…but he went to sex addicts anon group. Three weeks after we were married I came home to 20 min recording on my voice mail of him and a man in a
Public place having sex. I guess his phone auto dialed. It might have been an accident but I believe it was god showing me the truth. I needed to know.
I cried for weeks after that… Maybe years….but I had two choices. Stay with my. Best friend or divorce my husband. I stayed. Two things changed. I stopped checking on him which made me crazy… And I stopped all intimate connection with him. We simply don’t talk about it.
Sometimes I still check things like I did tonight and found he was placing ads again…….I yelled at him and told him how discusting his behavior is to me and how ashamed he should be. )He said he was and then we both went into our own bedrooms.

I will leave him one of these days. Right now I know I would not trust another man and he provides for me now. So I am comfortable for now.

I am not worried anymore because I iknow what he is and what he does.

You cannot stop a sex addict because there are thousands of other sex addicts out there looking for a playmate. in my experience they don’t have long term affairs, rather one time flings. my husband meets people I. The following ways…

1. On craigs list
2. While on business trips
3. At clubs during the day
4. Hookers
5 chat rooms
6. Personal websites like

I saw a post one day on crags list. it said ” wife at work today till 5pm. Can have hot sex at my house till 4 today.”. I cried when I saw that because some unsuspecting woman was off working and her sex addict husband stays home meeting people in there bed. This is how it goes girls.

I an sorry if I wrote something in this post that is not appropriate, but today I just needed to tell you how helpless I feel in a very sad situation with my sex addict husband.

If I had to do it all over again, as soon As I finished playing that recording I should have packed my things and left that day.

]]> By: Karen http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-10401 Karen Wed, 16 May 2012 04:52:25 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-10401 This is a test This is a test

]]> By: Mobile Phones http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-10129 Mobile Phones Mon, 16 Jan 2012 15:59:37 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-10129 Helpful information. Fortunate me I found your website unintentionally, and I'm stunned why this coincidence didn't happened in advance! I bookmarked it. Helpful information. Fortunate me I found your website unintentionally, and I’m stunned why this coincidence didn’t happened in advance! I bookmarked it.

]]> By: Ve http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-9555 Ve Wed, 01 Jun 2011 18:51:10 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-9555 Hahaa... That was funny! Good it worked for you! I'm trying do this too but I don't have patience anymore to be all the time looking our account bank, our cellphone bills, to be checking our parental control records. I don't have energy anymore to be doing this. I'm exhausted! However the records still there just in case. I don't know if want this life for me... Hahaa… That was funny! Good it worked for you!

I’m trying do this too but I don’t have patience anymore to be all the time looking our account bank, our cellphone bills, to be checking our parental control records. I don’t have energy anymore to be doing this. I’m exhausted! However the records still there just in case. I don’t know if want this life for me…

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