Comments on: My Boundaries For My Sex Addict Husband http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/ Help for Partners of Sex and Porn Addicts Mon, 06 Feb 2012 08:53:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mobile Phones http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-10129 Mobile Phones Mon, 16 Jan 2012 15:59:37 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-10129 Helpful information. Fortunate me I found your website unintentionally, and I'm stunned why this coincidence didn't happened in advance! I bookmarked it. Helpful information. Fortunate me I found your website unintentionally, and I’m stunned why this coincidence didn’t happened in advance! I bookmarked it.

]]> By: Ve http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-9555 Ve Wed, 01 Jun 2011 18:51:10 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-9555 Hahaa... That was funny! Good it worked for you! I'm trying do this too but I don't have patience anymore to be all the time looking our account bank, our cellphone bills, to be checking our parental control records. I don't have energy anymore to be doing this. I'm exhausted! However the records still there just in case. I don't know if want this life for me... Hahaa… That was funny! Good it worked for you!

I’m trying do this too but I don’t have patience anymore to be all the time looking our account bank, our cellphone bills, to be checking our parental control records. I don’t have energy anymore to be doing this. I’m exhausted! However the records still there just in case. I don’t know if want this life for me…

]]> By: Lorraine (now Lexie) http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-9547 Lorraine (now Lexie) Tue, 31 May 2011 22:17:59 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-9547 Hi Cat 402-- Good for you! I am imagining, that you have found his skanky profiles somewhere. Craig's List? I was always hoping that my predator's partner, would open up her own phony profile and with the help of a friend (that her SA did not know where he or she lived), use their apartment (they live in NYC) to bait him by posing as a new encounter. (very easy to do) The partner gets there early with a male friend (for back up) and hides in the bedroom closet. Then the SA, "Predator" arrives and chats and has a drink with the friend who's supposed to be the new encounter. The friend crawls into bed (with a spaghetti strapped top and pants on) while predator goes and "freshens up" (with his penis pump--- yeah, that's right)--- He comes into the bedroom, when suddenly the closet door is flung wide open and there is his sweet, lovely partner who says nothing, spits in his face and leaves. The friends spend as much time as possible talking to the SA as a means of a stall. In the meantime, the partner has already had the locks changed and hurries home before he arrives... Is that the sort of wild card that you had in mind? ;) Please keep us posted! xo, Lexie Hi Cat 402– Good for you! I am imagining, that you have found his skanky profiles somewhere. Craig’s List? I was always hoping that my predator’s partner, would open up her own phony profile and with the help of a friend (that her SA did not know where he or she lived), use their apartment (they live in NYC) to bait him by posing as a new encounter. (very easy to do) The partner gets there early with a male friend (for back up) and hides in the bedroom closet. Then the SA, “Predator” arrives and chats and has a drink with the friend who’s supposed to be the new encounter. The friend crawls into bed (with a spaghetti strapped top and pants on) while predator goes and “freshens up” (with his penis pump— yeah, that’s right)— He comes into the bedroom, when suddenly the closet door is flung wide open and there is his sweet, lovely partner who says nothing, spits in his face and leaves. The friends spend as much time as possible talking to the SA as a means of a stall. In the meantime, the partner has already had the locks changed and hurries home before he arrives…

Is that the sort of wild card that you had in mind? ;) Please keep us posted!

xo,

Lexie

]]> By: cat402 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-9544 cat402 Tue, 31 May 2011 19:16:33 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-9544 I totally agree with your anology of what life has/is like when you are with a sex addict. I am still with one but like most of you online, I am trying to decide if I should stay or go. And the decision is a hard one but oddly enough getting easier to come to terms with every day that I talk about it, think about it and agonize about it! I haven't done anything worng and I am tired of feeling like it's my battle too! It's not and he has made me the un-trusting and invading women that I have become and I don't like it one bit so I have to decide if this is what I want to have to do for another 20+ years! I have gained insight from a lot of you that have similiar situations and those who have extreme. Mine I think has come down to me making a decision and moving on with it. He has made promises and does good for a while but then always chooses to test the waters and see if the coast is clear to start again with the lies, the secret meetings and agendas. He decides to forgo us/to sacrafice us for sex! So now I hold the cards and decide on the next card to play... And its looking like it's time to play the wild card! I totally agree with your anology of what life has/is like when you are with a sex addict. I am still with one but like most of you online, I am trying to decide if I should stay or go. And the decision is a hard one but oddly enough getting easier to come to terms with every day that I talk about it, think about it and agonize about it!
I haven’t done anything worng and I am tired of feeling like it’s my battle too! It’s not and he has made me the un-trusting and invading women that I have become and I don’t like it one bit so I have to decide if this is what I want to have to do for another 20+ years!
I have gained insight from a lot of you that have similiar situations and those who have extreme. Mine I think has come down to me making a decision and moving on with it.
He has made promises and does good for a while but then always chooses to test the waters and see if the coast is clear to start again with the lies, the secret meetings and agendas. He decides to forgo us/to sacrafice us for sex!
So now I hold the cards and decide on the next card to play… And its looking like it’s time to play the wild card!

]]> By: majorshadow http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/my-boundaries-for-my-sex-addict-husband/#comment-9310 majorshadow Sun, 06 Feb 2011 14:37:25 +0000 http://marriedtoasexaddict.com/?p=1572#comment-9310 Song Title: What did I do Subject: R& B song about infidelity. The lyrics also address the new tinsel town bogus "sex addict" cop-out. Video is the lyric sheet synchronized to the audio recording. Video URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZp8u_vGgYo Song Title: What did I do
Subject: R& B song about infidelity. The lyrics also address the new tinsel town bogus “sex addict” cop-out. Video is the lyric sheet synchronized to the audio recording.
Video URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZp8u_vGgYo

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