Stories written from the heart by wives and husbands of Sex Addicts.
To JoAnn, It's so hard to not sob as I type this. I'm 24, married to a 34 year old sex addict. I don't even know where to start.I began getting irritated at his obvious porn addiction quite soon after I moved in. I would leave the house and know [...]
JoAnn, I have attached my story. I was divorced June 27, 2011 because my ex filed for it. I was married for 12 years to a man who had been very abusive towards me. When I first came into his life I didn’t know that he was sexually deviant. When I was pregnant with our daughter I found an old phone bill that had 900 numbers on it in the amount of $2,400.00. I then found several pieces of paper with mail box numbers on it, giving the person’s sex preference, height, weight, & age. It would list their race and BF which stood for Black Female or Bi Female. […]
I recently discovered that my husband of 22 years is a sex addict. It started with his "out of the blue" request for a divorce in Feb. of this year (unbenownst to me, he was in the middle of an acting out binge at the time).
It began with him closing down internet browsers and looking suspicious when I walked into the room, and I eventually found charges on our account for Adult Friend Finder. He would lie about his internet activity, blaming the charges on a “favor” he was doing for a buddy who didn’t have access to a credit card (really?), and the porn account was in said friends name (yeah right).
He is an avid sexter, telephone chat room visitor, and phone sex customer. We no longer have a computer of our own because I smashed it on the concrete patio one fine evening, but before that he frequented chat rooms there as well. I have good days and bad days.
Dear JoAnn, I don't even know where to begin. I met my boyfriend almost 12 years ago, soon after I had graduated high school. We started dating almost 3 months after first meeting each other. I thought things were going good between us, until I found out he was masturbating [...]
I feel so horrible for all the pain I have read about in these posts!! It breaks my heart so much that other women are having to go through the same hell I have, and most of them are so much worse. I discovered my husband's addiction after 14 years [...]
I recently (1 month ago) started to get to know a guy from my church through mutual friends. We really hit it off and would talk for hours and hours.
I found out what type he likes to look at. It was me! Girls who look almost exactly like me. I am VERY young looking for my age, which put his viewing habits at illegal.
My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for just under a year, and I love him very, very much. In addition to a potential sex addiction, our relationship hasn’t been easy.
It wasn't until May 2010 I started questioning his loyalty. I had previously caught him talking with a woman...