I cannot be in a marriage that has proven to be anything other than dishonest.
I cannot live with constant wonder if you are telling me the truth.
I cannot live with a husband that has to take lie detector tests.
I cannot live with the wonder if I will get a sexually transmitted disease.
I cannot live with the fear that should I get sick, you will take care of me and wonder if you be having sex with another woman while I am sick.
I cannot live with the angst of wondering if you slept with women when I meet them at various occasions.
I don’t want to travel to places with you where I think you might have fucked another woman.
I don’t want to live in pain anymore.
I will not and cannot live with a partner who has stolen my self esteem.
I will not and cannot live with a partner who has betrayed me throughout our marriage.
I refuse to live with someone rationalizes angry outbursts as a result of their addiction.
I can’t and will not live in fear that I will “give it one more chance” only to reopen old wounds.
I won’t live in secrecy and shame.
I will not live as if I have two lives, one private and one public.
I will not live with a husband who continues to put me in harms while driving and using a cell phone.
I will not compromise my self to meet someone else’s requests which goes against my own morals, values and beliefs.
I will not use denial as a way to cope and mask my pain.
I will not go through last 1/3 of my life with a distorted view of reality.
I cannot and don’t want to trust you as it relates to your having sex outside the marriage.
I don’t want to live with a man who cannot watch certain programs because they get triggered.
I don’t want to live with a man who has a sex addiction but continues to have immediate access to the internet and social networking sites.
I won’t live with a man who has been this sick for this long and has refused to see a doctor or take medicine to help.
I won’t live with a man who plays by their own rule book while enforcing different rules to others.
I want to travel out of the country. I want to go to Vietnam, Paris, Italy, Rome, bike ride through Italy, stay in a castle in a country like Ireland.
I want to jump out of an airplane.
I want to learn to bake
I want to perform on stage
I want to see broadway plays
I want to try new restaurants
I want to trust my life partner
I want to feel safe with my life partner
I want to live with someone who knows what the golden rule is and lives by that
I want to spend time with people who are different from me
I want to have a parakeet in my home
I want a partner that does not have to ask “how can I help”
I want a partner that likes to stay at home and watch old movies
I want someone to enjoy tinkering around the home doing chores
I want someone in my life that lives life with the same values I have as they relate to morals and living by the 10 commandments.
I deserve to live my life as I feel pleased.
I deserve to get angry with someone
I deserve to change my mind
I deserve to have beautiful clothing
I deserve to be silly
I deserve to be treated with respect
I deserve to be loved
I deserve to die with dignity
I deserve to say no
I deserve to say yes
I deserve to make mistakes
I deserve to stay healthy
I deserve more than my fair share
I deserve to live with honesty
I deserve to live with integrity
I need to have shelter
I need to have good healthy food
I need to have good medical care
I need to have my family in my life
I need to have friends around me
I need to be honest with all my friends and family
I need to be listened to
I need to be caring
I need to be loving
I need to be happy
I need to be funny and have a sense of humor
I need to laugh
I need to cry
I need to feel safe
I need to exercise