Unlike many women who visit your site I knew about my husbands sex addiction when I married him. He is not only a sex addict but a convicted felon and registered sex offender who spent 10 years in the penal system
We had been married less than one year before all of my hopes for the future were ripped away from me. Less than 10 months after I was married, I caught the love of my life with someone else. I did not know then, as I know now, that his affair was simply a symptom of the broader, secret addiction haunting his life.
Sometimes letters from my readers really touch my soul. I get many private e-mails through the ‘Contact’ page, which I always answer.
Sometimes one will really take me back. Here is my answer to one of those that talked about finding out those devastating facts while monitoring her husband’s computer.
Wife battles with her husband’s Sexual Addiction and Sexual fetish toward women smoking cigarettes.
Yes, I have heard, and sadly have previously agreed, that prostitution always has and always will be around, so why not just legalize it? But there was always that nagging hurt inside of me for the women. Something just wasn’t right about legalizing an industry that exploits women. An industry that caters to the base instincts of men who think that money can buy another human being and allow them to use and abuse that human being in any way they choose. An industry where men, and only men–the johns and the pimps, benefit at the expense of the objectified and abused women.