Written by Over the last few months I have been looking for resources on how to cope with being a partner to a porn addict, and I finally came across this website. I want to share my story in the hopes that maybe I will be able to get some form of closure from doing this, and maybe some advice from people who have been in my situation. When I first met my partner, it felt like … Continue reading “Sex With My Boyfriend Left Me Feeling Dehumanized, Worthless, Inadequate and Unattractive”
Should you stay in a marriage with a sex addict for the children? Are you worried it will harm them to come from a broken home? Is it really better to stay in a bad marriage than to divorce? Here are some thoughts on children and divorce.
I received this story yesterday from a woman who desperately needs support and advice. I am hoping some of you will chime in with responses. ~ JoAnn September 2016, my life totally changed. I returned from out of town for one night and had a feeling I needed to look at my husband’s phone. There were two different numbers texted asking, “are you available?” I knew what it was because in April 2015, I found … Continue reading ““are you available?”, Words We Never Want To See on Husband’s Phone”
I received the following e-mail from a concerned partner. I was appalled as I watched the video and listened to him make an absurd excuse for ‘sex addiction’ behaviors. Unfortunately this is just yet another twist on the old victim blaming game. What do you think? ~ JoAnn Hi JoAnn, First, thank you so much for all you do! Your blogs have been a Godsend. Without you, I wouldn’t have found the right kind of … Continue reading “A Letter to the Editor About Ross Rosenburg”
Another story of a sex addict husband using prostitutes and a wife who wonders if he can change. Hi, I feel at a loss right now and would massively appreciate the support of anyone who has been in my situation. I found out last June that my H had been using prostitutes. I saw the numbers on his phone and then the cash withdrawals from our joint bank account. He broke down and admitted that … Continue reading “Can He Change?”