My Husband Is A Sex Addict

My Husband Is A Sex Addict

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Do 12 Step Programs Really Work for Sex Addiction?

Here's an article I wrote asking 'Do 12 Step Programs Really Work for Sex Addiction' on my other website, Sisterhood Of Support . It covers information on 12 Step Programs and sex addiction treatment and recovery. [...]

“are you available?”, Words We Never Want To See on Husband’s Phone

I received this story yesterday from a woman who desperately needs support and advice. I am hoping some of you will chime in with responses. ~ JoAnn September 2016, my life totally changed. I returned [...]

A Letter to the Editor About Ross Rosenburg

I received the following e-mail from a concerned partner. I was appalled as I watched the video and listened to him make an absurd excuse for 'sex addiction' behaviors. Unfortunately this is just yet another [...]

A New Blog Post On The Sisterhood For Partners of Sex Addicts

Think back when you first got married (maybe before kids and mortgages). If someone had asked you the question “what would you do if he cheated on you?”, I bet that 99.9% of us would have answered without hesitation “I’d kill him then leave him”. And we would have answered that way because we never believed for one second that he would actually cheat! We did not marry men that we thought were cheaters.

Abuse is Abuse is Abuse

The news coverage of Ray Rice brutally beating his fiancee unconscious has brought back a flood of memories for me. I was a teen in the 60's and fought long and hard, alongside other courageous women, [...]

An Open Letter To Patrick Carnes, Stephanie Carnes, Robert Weiss, All CSAT Counselors And Sex Addiction 12 Step Advocates

Dear Patrick Carnes, Stephanie Carnes, Robert Weiss, All CSAT Counselors and all 12 Step Advocates for Sex Addiction, Please consider this letter an urgent request to change the current 12 step/co-addict approach that has been perpetuated [...]

Updated: Sex Addiction A Sham and a Scam

With all the pseudo research that the Sex Addiction gurus have done; and all the hundreds of millions of dollars they are making off of Sex Addiction, a fake term for a fake diagnosis; why can’t these so called experts put their heads together and figure out this Sex Addiction thing?

Feedback On A Comment From A Sex Addict/Christian Counselor

Here is a piece I received from a reader and member of the Sisterhood expressing her thoughts on what happened last week. It is referencing a comment posted here on this site, married to a sex addict, by Jeff Hutchinson a Sex Addiction coach. His posting, attacking me caused quite a stir. Here are Diane's thoughts about the incident. ~ JoAnn

Just Released! New eBook On Personality Disorders And Sex Addiction

necessary information for any partner who is interested in finding out exactly why these men do what they do or is facing the difficult choice of whether to stay or leave after the Discovery of Sex Addiction in her relationship.

Living With A Person With A Double Addiction

Living with a person with Double addiction... I recently discovered that my Alcoholic husband is also a Sex Addict.  As if dealing with the emotional drama of a recovering Alcoholic was not enough here comes [...]

10 Things To Help Partners Of Sex Addicts Deal With Holiday Stress

The Holiday Season is upon us and for Partners of Sex Addicts the stress can become unbearable.  Here's a few ideas to help you through the Holidays and deal with all that holiday stress. Ahhhh...the [...]

Announcing the Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists, The First Organization to Specialize in Training and Certification of Partner Specialists

A new professional organization was announced today at the Society for Advancement of Sexual Heath (SASH) national conference in San Antonio, Texas.

Guidelines For Using This Website

Often I get requests asking for advice or for me to provide e-mail addresses or phone numbers of other readers so that a personal connection can be made. I understand that need for such a connection, as well as the need for a private, open forum for sharing, and that's why I developed my o

Is Your Wife A Sex Addict?

Are you a man whose wife is a Sex Addict? You are not alone. Recently I have received so many e-mails from men who have discovered that their wives or partners are Sex Addicts

Are You Willing To Share Your Story On TV?

I have been contacted by a daytime television producer who is doing a show next week on porn addiction. The show would like to have a couple on who are struggling with porn addiction. Since [...]

Sexual Anorexia and Intimacy Anorexia

There has been a lot of discussion on the Sisterhood web site about the concepts of Sexual And Intimacy Anorexia. Many opinions have been voiced, so I thought I would bring that topic over here and see what some of you might have to say.

It’s ‘Only’ Porn, It’s Not Really Cheating

I found that my husband has been participating in regular webcam sessions with performers that he pays to take their clothes off. I feel quite betrayed but he says that it’s totally meaningless, that I am overreacting and that it’s just a harmless outlet for him and that it is something that most guys do.

A Warning!

JoAnn, I noticed a comment on your blog you may not have noticed yet, about a new talk show in New York wanting to do an episode on sex addiction. They also posted this on [...]

Need Advice On Intensives

Hi, JoAnn, I'm glad I found your site --- thank you for sharing and for providing an opportunity for a safe community of partners of sex addicts who are all in the same boat. I'd [...]

Porn Is Just A Typo Away

Here's why everyone should monitor their children's internet activity.

Share Your Story

Sharing our stories is good therapy. Women do this well; we laugh, we cry, we talk, pace, gesture and pull our hair out. We throw things, eat, purge, binge, scream and vent with each other. [...]

Dr. Magness On Treatment Of Sex Addicts And Their Traumatized Partners

I received this e-mail yesterday from Dr. Magness asking me to add his link and interview to the Married To A Sex Addict site. I have put his interview at the end of this post for your review.

Sorry About The Downtime

Some of you may have noticed that the site was down yesterday

Go Forth And Chat (check comments for my updates)

So, go to my new site, Sisterhood Of Support and register. At this time registration is free. Please put in the same e-mail address that you use for this site, as that is how I will verify that you are not some nutcase out there. Anyone I don't recognize will be contacted by me, and if they are not one of us, they will be banned from the site.

Personal Stories From Our Readers

Can He Change?

Another story of a sex addict husband using prostitutes and a wife who wonders if he can change.   Hi, I feel at a loss right now and would massively appreciate the support of anyone [...]

Has Anyone Else Gone Through a Similar Thing? He is a Porn Addict

I received this e-mail from a woman who is involved with a porn addict. She wonders if anyone else has had a similar experience. Please offer her your support and advice. ~ JoAnn My [...]

Does A Sex Addict Ever Stop?

Does any sex addict ever stop? Is it possible. Can they? Will they. Here is a story from one of our readers who wants to know if her sex addict husband can stop. ~ JoAnn [...]

Sex Addict Husband Secretly Video Tapes Me

Here is a story from a partner whose sex addict husband has secretly video taped her in the shower and while having sex without her knowledge for over 20 years. It is so [...]

One Woman’s Story of Sex Addiction Partner Trauma

I received this e-mail today from Stephanie. Here is her story of the Partner Trauma and stress that she is suffering due to her boyfriend's sex addiction. I hope that writing it and seeing it in black and white will help [...]

My Wife is a Sex Addict

My name is David and I have been with my wife for 33 yrs we have 3 children 27, 21 & 15. Last year I found out that my wife had many men's names in her phone

Another Example of Sex Addiction Therapy Induced Trauma To Partners

I received this heartbreaking story in my e-mail today. It is the classic example of how Partners are scammed and abused not only by their SAs, but by the therapeutic community as well. This needs [...]

My Sex Addict Husband Is Abusing Our Daughter

Dear JoAnn, Dear JoAnn, Thank you for being so vulnerable and for creating this site. I am actively pursuing healing for myself and struggling with how to stop trying to fix my husband. I left [...]

Josie’s Story Of Her Husband’s Porn Addiction

Josie sent me her story of her husband's porn addiction. She feels guilty even considering leaving him

Britta’s Story; A New Baby and A Sex Addict Boyfriend

story about a young woman who has a Sex Addict boyfriend. Her trauma and confusion is so heartbreaking, especially with a new baby in the mix.

Jenn’s Story Her Sex Addict Husband Escalated From Facebook Girlfriends To Escorts

I recently received this story from a Partner of a Sex Addict. My heart just breaks every time I get another tale of betrayal, lies and deceit. Please give Jenn some support and direction. ~ [...]

D’s Story of Gay Partner Betrayal

I received this poignant story from D, a gay man who has suffered tremendous emotional trauma from the betrayal of his Sex Addict partner.

I Am Married To A Recovering Sex Addict

I have read a lot of stories that have similar elements to mine, so I will try to be brief. In May we will be married for 15 years. We have not had sex in [...]

My Wife Is A Sex Addict

When we think about Partners of Sex Addicts we usually think of women. But, there are many men out there who are also dealing the Discovery that their wives have been leading a secret sexual life.

I Discovered That My Sex Addict Husband Has Been Producing Adult Pornography

A year ago I discovered my husband had been operating as a producer, photographer, and performer of an adult pornography internet business. He operated this business in secrecy from me for over the course of [...]

My Boyfriend Of 18 Years Is A Sex Addict

This heartbreaking story of an 18 year relationship with a Sex Addict was sent to me yesterday. The unraveling of a secret life is tantamount to 18 years of torture and abuse.

Sex Addict Military Husband And Special Needs Children

I received this story today from a woman whose husband is a Sex Addict and she also has two special needs children. H. would like your support and advice on dealing with this double burden.

C’s Discovery Of Her Husband’s Sex Addiction

It was January 17th and I had just spoken to my husband who was out of town on a business trip. As usual I just tossed my phone on our bed after we said our goodbye’s, never bothering to actually touch the “end” button on the call.

Husband Says He Doesn’t Need Help With His Sex And Porn Addiction

Ever since I met this man, I feel that my life was never the same….I feel that I am drowning in pain and with lots of anger. Since the beginning, I had other women involved in our marriage meaning he kept flirting and giving his number to them

I Think He’s A Sex Addict, But I Love Him

I think my husband is a Sex Addict, but the thing I have been struggling with the most is my "but I love him". My husband and I have been together since I was 16. I'm now 32.

Is My Husband A Sex Addict Or An Entitled, Narcissistic Bastard?

Dear JoAnn, I would like to preface this by saying that I have yet to determine whether my husband is a sex addict with a compulsion to consume porn, surf escort sites, and sleep with [...]

Christine’s Story – Engaged To A Sex Addict

I am engaged to a Sex Addict. I first met my fiancé January 21st, 2004. I was 17, and had been chatting with him for a few weeks on a popular teenage/college dating website.

Boyfriend’s Sex Addiction Is Like Playing Emotional Ping Pong

l would like to share my story about my boyfriend's Sex Addiction and get some feedback.

Do I Stay And Hope For The Best Or Say ‘Fuck It’ I’m Done?

I met my husband 9 years ago. We married almost 6 years ago. During our first years of marriage I would find printed out pictures of women.

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New Trauma Recovery Video Series

This video series for partners of sex addicts outlines some of the most important, and very first things that a partner should consider after discovering that the person they are in an intimate relationship with may be a sex addict. These videos will help you understand your trauma, know what you need to do first after your discovery and offers resources and exercises to help you recover physically and emotionally from your trauma.

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Coaching for Partners of Sex Addicts

Coaching for partners of sex addicts

With JoAnn Russell, RN, MS
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I offer a unique Coaching Program that integrates both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a Stress Management system specifically designed for Partners of sex addicts. Plans can be custom tailored to your needs and/or budget.  Online video or phone sessions. For more information click the button below or go here: https://sisterhoodofsupport.org/sos-coaching-for-partners-of-sex-addicts/

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