Stories written from the heart by wives and husbands of Sex Addicts.
It should come as no surprise to you that I have been deeply affected by your outside sexual activities throughout the course of our relationship and the way you deliberately and systematically hid them from me.
found out that my husband is a true 100% full blown sex addict 1 month ago. Thanks to watching an Oprah show about recovering sex addicts, he admitted to paying for sex and masturbating to pornography before and during our entire relationship.
We have been dealing with an incident that happened two nights ago. I found him in our theater room watching a very sexually explicit movie.
It’s the one year anniversary of the moment I realized my husband was addicted to internet porn.
Underneath that rage lies a world of hurt and betrayal; one that began long before I considered marrying my second sex addict. Yeah, I did it twice.
I cannot be in a marriage that has proven to be anything other than dishonest. I cannot live with constant wonder if you are telling me the truth.
This isn't a story quite like the others-- I pretty much destroyed a part of my soul to keep my marriage together.
On May 8th, I caught my partner of 10 years and my fiancé of a 7 months with another woman.
I am sharing because I can’t find another woman who’s been in this situation. But I am sure they are out there. My head is spinning and I feel so…
Please do me a favor, commit or quit. The mere fact that you have asked to go on a trip like that and even threatened to book it any way (you obviously feel denied about it) has made me seriously question your commitment to your so called "recovery".
My husband admitted he had a porn addiction the last 8 years of his last marriage, and the porn involved very heavy women dealing with domination and submission.
We had been married less than one year before all of my hopes for the future were ripped away from me. Less than 10 months after I was married, I caught the love of my life with someone else. I did not know then, as I know now, that his affair was simply a symptom of the broader, secret addiction haunting his life.