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Stories written from the heart by wives and husbands of Sex Addicts.

Can He Change?

Another story of a sex addict husband using prostitutes and a wife who wonders if he can change.   Hi, I feel at a loss right now and would massively appreciate the support of anyone who has been in my situation. I found out last June that my H had [...]

Has Anyone Else Gone Through a Similar Thing? He is a Porn Addict

I received this e-mail from a woman who is involved with a porn addict. She wonders if anyone else has had a similar experience. Please offer her your support and advice. ~ JoAnn My story: I am 29 and I met the love of my life on the 17th [...]

Does A Sex Addict Ever Stop?

Does any sex addict ever stop? Is it possible. Can they? Will they. Here is a story from one of our readers who wants to know if her sex addict husband can stop. ~ JoAnn I don’t really know if I’m relieved or disappointed to have found this site. Relieved [...]

Sex Addict Husband Secretly Video Tapes Me

Here is a story from a partner whose sex addict husband has secretly video taped her in the shower and while having sex without her knowledge for over 20 years. It is so difficult to read of such a violation of privacy. Here is her story. ~ JoAnn I [...]

One Woman’s Story of Sex Addiction Partner Trauma

I received this e-mail today from Stephanie. Here is her story of the Partner Trauma and stress that she is suffering due to her boyfriend's sex addiction. I hope that writing it and seeing it in black and white will help her find the strength she needs to heal. ~ JoAnn I want to start off [...]

My Wife is a Sex Addict

My name is David and I have been with my wife for 33 yrs we have 3 children 27, 21 & 15. Last year I found out that my wife had many men's names in her phone

Another Example of Sex Addiction Therapy Induced Trauma To Partners

I received this heartbreaking story in my e-mail today. It is the classic example of how Partners are scammed and abused not only by their SAs, but by the therapeutic community as well. This needs to stop! ~ JoAnn This month will make one year since I discovered my husband's [...]

My Sex Addict Husband Is Abusing Our Daughter

Dear JoAnn, Dear JoAnn, Thank you for being so vulnerable and for creating this site. I am actively pursuing healing for myself and struggling with how to stop trying to fix my husband. I left him because of his isolating and controlling behavior. When I finally recognized that my submission [...]

Josie’s Story Of Her Husband’s Porn Addiction

Josie sent me her story of her husband's porn addiction. She feels guilty even considering leaving him

Britta’s Story; A New Baby and A Sex Addict Boyfriend

story about a young woman who has a Sex Addict boyfriend. Her trauma and confusion is so heartbreaking, especially with a new baby in the mix.

Jenn’s Story Her Sex Addict Husband Escalated From Facebook Girlfriends To Escorts

I recently received this story from a Partner of a Sex Addict. My heart just breaks every time I get another tale of betrayal, lies and deceit. Please give Jenn some support and direction. ~ JoAnn Hello, I stumbled on your site purely by accident, while trying to get some [...]

D’s Story of Gay Partner Betrayal

I received this poignant story from D, a gay man who has suffered tremendous emotional trauma from the betrayal of his Sex Addict partner.

I Am Married To A Recovering Sex Addict

I have read a lot of stories that have similar elements to mine, so I will try to be brief. In May we will be married for 15 years. We have not had sex in 14. I knew, from long, honest conversations during the year before we married, that he [...]

My Wife Is A Sex Addict

When we think about Partners of Sex Addicts we usually think of women. But, there are many men out there who are also dealing the Discovery that their wives have been leading a secret sexual life.

I Discovered That My Sex Addict Husband Has Been Producing Adult Pornography

A year ago I discovered my husband had been operating as a producer, photographer, and performer of an adult pornography internet business. He operated this business in secrecy from me for over the course of 12 years. During this time he contracted with 250 plus Women (Models) ranging in age18-52 [...]

My Boyfriend Of 18 Years Is A Sex Addict

This heartbreaking story of an 18 year relationship with a Sex Addict was sent to me yesterday. The unraveling of a secret life is tantamount to 18 years of torture and abuse.