My husband was 28 and a virgin when I met him. I did not know he was a virgin just thought he was sexually inexperienced. Then when we began having sex, he told me he wanted to wear women’s undergarments and watch me have sex with other men. I told him I did not like him talking about that stuff and to please stop.
We had been married less than one year before all of my hopes for the future were ripped away from me. Less than 10 months after I was married, I caught the love of my life with someone else. I did not know then, as I know now, that his affair was simply a symptom of the broader, secret addiction haunting his life.
My husband admitted he had a porn addiction the last 8 years of his last marriage, and the porn involved very heavy women dealing with domination and submission.
Please do me a favor, commit or quit. The mere fact that you have asked to go on a trip like that and even threatened to book it any way (you obviously feel denied about it) has made me seriously question your commitment to your so called “recovery”.
I am sharing because I can’t find another woman who’s been in this situation. But I am sure they are out there. My head is spinning and I feel so foolish and lost. My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years. He is funny, charismatic and loving to me and our children. His problem is that when he was about 19 ears old he was caught exposing himself to an unsuspecting female.
Every woman who has gone through the pain and turmoil of discovering that their partner is a Sex Addict seeks answers to the same questions.
On May 8th, I caught my partner of 10 years and my fiancé of a 7 months with another woman.
This isn’t a story quite like the others– I pretty much destroyed a part of my soul to keep my marriage together.
I cannot be in a marriage that has proven to be anything other than dishonest.
I cannot live with constant wonder if you are telling me the truth.
Underneath that rage lies a world of hurt and betrayal; one that began long before I considered marrying my second sex addict. Yeah, I did it twice.
It’s the one year anniversary of the moment I realized my husband was addicted to internet porn.
We have been dealing with an incident that happened two nights ago. I found him in our theater room watching a very sexually explicit movie.
found out that my husband is a true 100% full blown sex addict 1 month ago. Thanks to watching an Oprah show about recovering sex addicts, he admitted to paying for sex and masturbating to pornography before and during our entire relationship.
My name is Shari Cohn. I am a psychotherapist who works with sex addicts and partners is Madison Wisconsin.
We went to strip clubs, he loved watching me get lap dances, he thought I was so cool for being open to it, I obliged. His buddies came with us to the strip clubs; he liked to parade me in front of them, to show them how cool I was.
It should come as no surprise to you that I have been deeply affected by your outside sexual activities throughout the course of our relationship and the way you deliberately and systematically hid them from me.
I became sexually involved with my Sex Addict husband immediately after we started dating as we had been friends and co-workers first. I was only 22, but it seemed loving and satisfying.
When I first realized that my husband was a Sex Addict is when I found some pornography charged to my Cable bill. We had not been married long
My name is Stephanie and I just found out the truth about my Sex Addict husband.
I met Sex Addict Scott at church, a curious stranger, new to my church. I spotted him, tall and dark, singing in the choir, playing the guitar and trombone, and would occasionally see him singing with other choirs around the city.